Tag: Coupling

Appreciative Problem Solving

How to Gain an Appreciative Perspective Before Raising a Potentially Contentious Issue with Someone: Step 1: Your experience: How does the (situation /circumstance / relationship) make you feel? How does it affect your performance / behaviour? What thoughts does it evoke? How does it influence your relationship with the other participants in this situation? What […]

Appreciating Relationships- The questions to be asking

Relationship Questions Questions for you: What in your mind are people signing up for when they enter into a relationship with you? How does this square up with what you told them or they thought they were signing up for? If the answer is that the promise and reality do not square up-what has changed […]

Culture Wars

A situation that so often arises is illustrated in the following story. A young bride to be decides that for the sake of bridge building and in order to make her future mother-in-law feel reassured that she is not losing a son but gaining a daughter in-law, invites her soon to be new relative to […]

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